Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about our special day
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Ceremony & Reception
What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
Arrival starts from 10:30 AM. The ceremony will begin at 11:00 AM. Please arrive early to allow for seating and any pre-ceremony activities.
Is there a dress code for the wedding?
We request our guests to be colorfully presented. With respect to both families, we ask that guests are conservatively (covered up) presented. Please avoid white or ivory to avoid confusion with the bride.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
We ask that the sanctuary is respected and photos and videos are taken at appropriate times without interrupting the paid professionals. Please be mindful during the ceremony.
Will there be a cocktail hour?
Yes! There will be a cocktail hour with light refreshments and appetizers while we take our formal photos. This is a great time to mingle with other guests.
Is the wedding invite only?
The church ceremony on Saturday is open to all. However, the reception is invite only.
RSVP & Guest Information
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by October 5, 2025 to enable preparation and ensure we have enough food and seating for everyone.
Can I bring a plus one?
Plus ones are welcome if they were included in your invitation.
Are children welcome at the wedding?
Children are welcome - we love the chaos! We're excited to celebrate with families of all sizes.
What if I can't attend but want to send well wishes?
We completely understand! You can leave us a sweet message on our Invites page, and we'd love to celebrate with you another time. If you'd like to send a little something to help us start our new life together, you can find our registry on our website.
Gifts & Registry
Where are you registered?
Your presence is our present! However, if you'd like to give a gift, we have digital gift options available on our Registry page for your convenience.
Do you prefer cash gifts or physical presents?
We're grateful for any gift you choose to give. Digital gifts are most convenient for us, but if you'd like to bring physical gifts, there will be a gift table at the ceremony.
When should I send a gift?
You can send a gift anytime before or after the wedding. There's no rush - we're just excited to celebrate with you!
Photography & Social Media
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
Yes, photos can be taken during the ceremony, but please don't interfere with or get in the way of the professionals. We want everyone to enjoy the moment while being respectful of our photographers.
Can I post photos on social media?
Yes! We'd love for you to share your photos using our wedding hashtag #TheFirsts25. Just please be respectful during the ceremony.
When will we receive the professional photos?
Our photographer will share a link to all the photos within 4-6 weeks after the wedding. We'll send the link to all guests.
Is there a wedding hashtag?
Yes! Please use #TheFirsts25 when sharing photos and posts. We can't wait to see your perspective of our special day.
Important Reminders
📅 RSVP Deadline
Please respond by October 5, 2025
🎯 Dress Code
Dress code is colorful and conservative attire
📸 Photography
Photos are allowed during ceremony but don't interrupt the professionals
🚗 Transportation
No Transportation available